how can i solve this issue with my husband me and my husband we are a young
family with three kids 4,2,1..i stay home. so he can go to work ,but he
thinks whatever money he makes i am only allows to buy food and stuff for
the house ,even for them he says we are broke but he can go and spend $100
here and there whatever he wants to buy .and he says he deserves it because
he works for it.i am so confuse .
Janie Lacy, is right on target with the advice she gives to couples.
A husband told his wife, “Stop doing this and start doing that; stop
thinking this and start thinking that; stop being yourself and start being
someone else.” So she left him so he could find someone he liked better.
But he criticized her for leaving, saying, “I told you to stop thinking for
yourself! If you had listened to me and thought like me instead, you would
have never destroyed this marriage.” Her self-esteem was so low by that
point that she took his advice, returned home, and suffered.
some things you gotta let go. Good advice, though tricky in practice! Pick
This is really tough, but i would have to say possibly try to earn some
while working at home like through Avon or other home business
opportunities. That is so unfair for your husband to insinuate that he is
the only one working, those kids don’t get taken care of by themselves, who
cooks, cleans, washes cloths etc…your hubby needs to watch Madea…sounds
like u have a job to me. I know it is hard but i would attempt to gain some
independence for your own benefit & your children’s!
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