People tend not to show their toxic behavior right away, which can leave us dating a stranger. Some people get into a relationship to only later find out that they are dating a complete control freak. Thankfully, there are early warning signs for you to keep an eye out for, just in case you feel that you have entered into a relationship with someone who is a control freak. For most people, their phone is a pretty private place. They may look through your messages and apps. Control freaks want to maintain order and control in your relationship.
The first signs are usually barely recognizable, primarily because most control freaks stay low-key for as long as they can. In one of my past relationships , the guy got fed up with me not listening when it came to what I ate, and literally swatted popcorn out of my hand. Needless to say, that relationship is now over due to control issues. You going to the movies, only to hear him whine about what a waste of money it was. Just saying. At work, is he a micromanager? Among friends, is it his way or the highway?
Ever felt you might be missing signs you're dating a control freak? They could be subtle — insisting on coming everywhere with you and spending all your time together — or more calculating, like checking your phone for messages and telling you who you can and can't be friends with. In case you've ever wondered, here are 7 signs you're dating a control freak. While there's nothing wrong with answering your partner's phone if they're asleep or in the shower, constantly checking it shows there's no trust in the relationship. If you catch your other half in the act, it's time to sit down and have a discussion about what's going on.
If you can relate with most of these signs of a control freak then you probably have Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder OCPD. But why should you change? Ellen Hendriksen. You have high standards. You get things done right the first time.