After three months with someone, you begin to settle down. You begin to relax some. You let down your guard, you act more like who you really are. They do too — you learn who they are, day-in and day-out. You learn where they have moles on their legs, and birthmarks on their backs. After three months, you start to imitate their mannerisms, subconsciously — their laugh, their quirks of speech.
18 Little Ways You Can Tell In The First Month That Your Relationship Is Actually Going To Last
I repeatedly tell my clients that the first 3 months of dating a man are critical. Learn the 6 Steps to Attracting Your Soulmate in my free guide [click here to download]. Critical, because this is the time period during which rapid attraction building is taking place and where the man is essentially making up his mind about you and if he wants a future with you. Believe it or not but in these first 12 weeks of knowing a man, the fundamentals of the relationship are decided. What you do during this phase of dating is what will go on to decide how the relationship will evolve and look in the future and whether or not it will at all progress forward.
While there are no clear-cut rules for dating, there are plenty of guidelines that can help you find what you're looking for and avoid pitfalls. The single most important thing you should know when looking for your ideal partner is not about your partner; it's about you. First, you have to understand, not what you want from a partner, but what you want from your life. It sounds simple.
Meeting your lover is only the first stage of dating. Do you know what stage you're in after dating for a month? What about 4 months of dating?