At one point, after what I've been through, I started to assume all women were flat-out crazy. But then I started coaching women in my professional life, teaching them how to meet quality men, and you know what I realized? Guys are also nuts. I heard some stories from women that literally blew my socks off. So that basically affirmed that people from both genders are cray-cray.
2 Signs The Guy You’re Dating Is Crazy (And 3 Signs He’s A Keeper) | Thought Catalog
Nothing is ever their fault and they never acknowledge their part in conflicts. She is known for being the center of attention until something bad happens, then the blame goes to someone else… and she will be the first person to throw you under the bus. Gas lighting you. Blaming all of their problems on everyone else—nothing is ever their fault. They may simply lack the emotional intelligence to deal with disappointment, and genuinely believe that you are the asshole for not going along with them. They demand special treatment.
While we like to think that we know what evil is, true evil is much more intelligent and will often seem like it is not there. People are essentially good — whatever they turn out to be, there will always be some good in them. And no matter how much we wish to see the good in everyone, there are those who will be ready to use whatever good is left in them for a sinister purpose. These people are genuinely evil, and this is something they enjoy.
He should be considerate and nice if he wants you around. This also applies to the way he behaves about anyone or anything else. You get a weird feeling in your gut. Never discount your instincts.